You don't say how far away the little lady's birthday is.
If it's a month or so, try and set it up at a mates place with half a dozen neons to get it cycling.
Then present it to her on her B/day.
Otherwise it could be a joint effort, set it up with her on the big day, you could speed things up by having the water in buckets, aged and warmed, but do the fish thing REAL slow, otherwise you will end up with deaths.
You could take her shopping at the local LFS, and say go for it, BUT $$$$.
Or do out a gift certificate for her, give a copy to the LFS and give her a B/day that way.
Happy B/day to her any way.
Alan 104
ps. Where in Auk are you.
If you are over the 'Shore, then there is a real good club there that I'm sure would help if necessary.
Also Wok is involved in another club in West Auk I think.
Al