your generalisation is pretty much spot on ryan
I nearly always stripped my females, so i can't be sure how good the fry are at avoiding death....
Stripping allows you do to a stock take of how many fry you have and it means that your female can take as few as 2-3 weeks to recover before spawning again. However, sometimes they do 'trickle breed' with only a few eggs which allows the females to kind of eat around the eggs so it is kinda hard to tell which to strip...When i stripped one female i thought i should check the rest, just to be sure...she had 12 wrigglers but another had 3 fully free-swimming spotty dubs in her throat! she probably would have released them eventually but i had cuckoo syno's, rainbowfish and probably a few hungry duboisi....Though, when they were breeding and the female failed to pick up an egg at the first turn, the male did pick them up and wait for her to lay another before spitting it out so she could pick it up!! not sure about how he would react to fry tho :roll: