The colour that leaches out of the driftwood probably won't do much harm, it is only worth taking out if you don't like tea coloured water!
Airstones are for human aesthetic purposes only, and don't do much for the fish either way, but if you like the bubbly effect, by all means put one in the tank.
Plant food is a tricky one, some people have their favourites that they swear by, others don't bother and leave it to the fish poop to fertilize their plants. It would possibly depend on what particular plants you have, and what their lighting/fertilizer requirements are. Generally the more light demanding plants - especially the red leafed ones, may require some ferts to keep them happy.
Be careful with the G clamp on the filter, brittle plastic may not take to the uneven pressure too well. Maybe an elastic tiedown thingy (the ones you use to hold your bike onto a car rack) may be better, or perhaps a nylon ratchet tie down. Someone else may have a better idea.