Quite simple really (and as per usual, this is IMO):
Single Sea-Swirl with Iwaki 30RXT at 4 foot head = 4300lph. Maximum flow a 1" Sea Swirl will allow is 4350lph. Cost of one 1" SeaSwirl landed = $380.
Two Sea-Swirls with Iwaki 30RXT at 4 foot head still = 4300lph or 2150lph per sea-swirl. Maximum flow a 3/4" Sea Swirl will allow is 3200lph. Cost of two 3/4" SeaSwirls landed = $550.
Bearing in mind that the tank is only 4 foot, pumping 4300lph across a 4 foot tank is quite considerable return flow and will easily reach the opposite corner of the tank. Also bear in mind that if he is looking at an OM setup and already has Seio's, this will provide more than sufficient and random water flow/cross currents against the return. IMO, a single larger sea-swirl pumping massive flow oscillated 90 degrees across the tank is better than two for the extra cost.
I disagree. (The smaller) Iwaki's are extremely quiet pumps. Pies I hope you are not talking about your Iwaki 100RLT... wouldnt be surprised as it's basically a small motorbike engine.
Disagree. Silicon is as strong as glass. As Pies says above, benefits outweigh the disadvantages. So long as all holes have ball valves to shut off for maintenance, all threads are wound with teflon tape and all plumbing is sealed with pressure-rated glue, there will be no problems.