This is likely to offend people but I think it needs to be said...
Everyone keeps saying NZ is getting more violent and more domestic violence ect. In my opinion there is a direct link with the increase of domestic violence and the reduction of corporal punishment.
If you look at it violence is becoming a problem because noone know respect. 50 years ago you learnt values and respect. If you disrespected your elders you got a smack and when you grew up you showed that same respect and where less likely to smack you kids because you knew how it felt. Now people that call themself parents (stupid 15 years olds that got drunk and went at it at some party. Probably not knowing the guy for more than 5 min) do not know what it is like and they hit their kids like they would hit someone in the pub.
I think the hippies that are saying we are getting violent and need to stop should look at their parents and their parents and then go tell them how much of a failure they are because they were horrible parents that do not know how to raise good children.
I was smacked and I think I turned out OK. I have not been in prison, charged with assault or anything else major. I have a good job and a good partner (who was also smacked and turned out ok)