I used it to be in touch with my son but I hate the PM thing on it (which isn't private btw) and he uses the chat thing which I really, really hate and refuse to use. I have tried emails or msn with him but no joy. As Mum uses the chat thing, she's in touch with him so can relay his news to me :-?
I think FB makes people egotistical - all this "look at me, look at me!" stuff as they go on and on about stuff they're doing which is often very uninteresting. It's like reading someone's daily diary and what they do every day is very snoresome.
I hate the spam too, I hide people who do nothing but share pics all day long :roll: