Haha the topic of sand gets a lot of coverage here.
Basicially there are a few options with sand that all have different pros and cons. You can have no sand at all - BB (barebottom), SB(shallow) DSB(deep sand bed).
It all depends on what system you are after/what you want to keep.
I would say come up with a basic idea of what you want, - fish only, soft corals, hard corals(sps)?
I think generally noone goes straight to sps, so it sounds like you probably want to go soft corals.
Have you decided if you want a sump? If you give a budget it helps, I think $5K is what(most :roll: ) people here reccommend for a good quality (sps capable) system. DIY can help out with cost alot.
Make up a plan and it will make it a lot easier.
I'm in the process of making my first aquarium (on minimal budget) and lots of research/reading is necessary.
If you haven't found it already reefcentral.com is a very good american site.
Maybe the pros here can give you some more info,