As a common poster on an octopus forum I can easily see why many of the heavyweights here get annoyed with answering the same questions each time a new person joins. (I'm guilty of that too)
Every few days on that forum "I have a new octopus, bought it at the lfs - what do I do now", type thing. ,
Its good that someone so young is into the hobby, dont think of the people here as telling you off, more that they are teaching you.
Personally I love this forum, a diversity of opinions and beliefs, and I dont think I have seen any bad apples. Granted there is some conflict - but at the end of the day who cares?
Check out the Iduncan vrs Wasp confrontations that are strewn about the saltwater forum here. I love it!!! And at the end of the day, I think they like it too. What would Days Of Our Lives be without a little drama? - (even worse) :lol: