Jeroen you are correct in your assessement that your return pump is a little small. A good rule of thumb is that the return pump should pump the volume of the main tank around 5 x's per hour. I think taking into account the head pressure yours will do a little more than 2 x's per hour.
Having said that, there will no doubt be successful tanks running return rates of less than 5 x's, but when you're getting down close to 2 x's, considering that not each and every bit of water will pass through the sump, and by the skimmer 2 x's per hour, it will result in lower water quality, especially if you wish to carry a high bioload.
However this will certainly enable you to get started, you could probably use this pump for a while, until you come across or can afford a better one.