Yeah, Ammo lock is definately the problem, your tank just isn't cycled at all. Try taking some of the media from one of your fish tanks and putting it in your niece's filter, it will seed the tank with nitrifying and nitrafying bacteria.
Herefishiefishie, not cleaning your filter in months is fine, the only time I generally clean mine is when the flow from them decreases beyond acceptable levels. The brown crap in filters is actually accumulated iron (and not fish crap, as you might think), I've been told.