exactly what i have read too, around 95% death rate in alot of cases. so either way, water returned from sump OR refugium will mean dead pods. its the pump thats going to kill them. hence reason for fuge above tank and gravity fed as a preference.
btw, i was saying above that i think the fuge after is preferential, but if it comes to it and design does not allow for it, (IMO) not crucial. to explain my point, picture it this way:
assume fuge is before sump, how does water get from the fuge to the sump? via the overflow right - it's the only way - so thats how the pods get there too. so now picture your main tank, how does water (typically) get out? again, the overflow. of course you're hoping your main tank is full of pods too feed the fish - but a % of those pods will go down the overflow and direct into the skimmer (if the sumps first) - so essentially you're always losing pods. reason i said preferential having sump/skimmer first though, is there is (hopefully) a larger growth of pods in the fuge (time factor - allowing them to grow). this of course means if you play the percentage game, a greater number of pods should get back to the main tank alive.