thanks for all the tips, as i checked them today, they both came up to surface waiting for food and as i fed abit of cichlid gold the female took pretty much 6,7 large pellets at once and at that point i thought they recovered, but then she suddenly spat it all out after trying to chew it and then just lost interest so i was thinking she had injury in her mouth but i couldnt see anything, the males back to normal swimming around waiting for the left over food to go soggy and take it real slowly, the only thing i notice of the female that i never seen before was that she twitched her dorsal fin a few times, but only saw her doing it once and now shes just back to "hovering mode".