Just changed my bulbs a week or two ago. I was using Venture 10k bulbs, which i'd probably rate as 12 - 14k. I was very happy with these, and they were very reasonably priced. I now have coralvue 20k's. They appear similar in colour to the ventures, but I think the light from the 20k's is distributed more at opposite ends of the spectrum. ie more Blue, and more red/yellow, with little green. They definitely make the green corals fluoresce more, without the ultra blue look that a lot of 20k bulbs.
Ballasts are standard atco MH ballasts with ignitors, and cost around $140 with caps. Apparently you can get a similar ballast used for high pressure sodium and metal halides for around $120 all together in a case, from many hydroponics suppliers.
Reflectors, well I can get aluminium plates from work, which I polish using a buffer and braso, then bend to create the reflector. It's too hard to find anything else suitable. All I see are the white painted hydroponics ones.
Layton