It is very hard to say what will happen or what has happened so far, are any other fish looking beaten up? You can usually tell when they have been severely beaten as half their fins are hanging off and they tend to sit up at the water surface looking sad..
Have you seen any major aggression from any of them?
I re did one of my african tanks that had my young dems in it and they all decided to hide, that was when I noticed they were their most aggressive for some reason. But once I moved them into a tank they were happy in it seemed to settle down, I think it may have been fighting in amongst the rocks for hidey holes maybe?
I would also say your tank is probably too small for them, they really need to be in a large 3ft tank especially when yours are reaching breeding size as that is where they start getting aggressive.. As these fish get easier to come by I think people are just going to have more and more problems with them, people selling them in smaller numbers and not recommending descent tank sizes etc.
I have heard (and would never recommend it) of people keeping 20 dems in 2ft tanks in an attempt to overcrowd them and give them so little space they have none to fight over, apparently it worked but doesn't sound ideal to me.