Answers:
1) Skimmer is the primary form of filtration used in reefs. Biological filtration is achieved using live rock. Skimmers are used with every type of fish or coral. Canister filters are used by some people to run carbon, or other such chemical filtration media.
2) Some of the auckland guys can give you info on where to obtain MH stuff up there. You can go with aquarium specific fittings such as Arcadia, or you can go with DIY using ballasts and reflectors from hydroponics places. You could do a single 400Watt setup for around $300 (incl bulb) DIY. MUCH more expensive if you buy a unit such as the Arcadia ones.
3) The idea with marine tanks is to have as few "dead" spots (areas of low flow) as possible. Good flow around and between live rock with increase it's usefulness as a biological filter (reducing nitrates). So placement is really a matter of trial and error. Most corals love a lot of current (excluding some LPS). Good flow is just as critical as good lighting in a reef.
4) Live rock forms the basis of the biological filtration for the tank. It can be imported into NZ, but must be stored dry for the quarantine period of 3 weeks, which defeats the whole purpose of live rock. Again ask some of the auckland people where to get it (most likely as dry rock), I assume places like jansens have it. This dry rock has to be reseeded in order for it to be useful as a biological filter. This involves storing it in saltwater for a couple of months with a piece of "real" live rock. Jetskisteve may be able to sort you out with some real live rock. Typical cost for live rock is around $12/kg.
5) Two methods of getting saltwater. 1) buy salt from your LFS and mix it up with ro/di water. 2) Collect from the nearest beach. Don't use salt from the supermarket.
6) The sand used in reefs is carbonate based, (rather than silica based which is found on NZ beaches). Again you should be able to get this from Jansens or equivalent .
7) In Auckland, Jansens, Hollywood, (there must be others as well but I live in ChCh so I don't know)
8) Protien skimmer is a big plastic tube which water is pumped through in the tube it is mixed with fine air bubbles, the air bubbles attract organic molecules to their surface. The bubbles rise up the tube, dragging these molecules with them, and then finally overflow as a foam into a collection cup at the top.
9) Corals come attached to a small piece of rock, you just wedge them into the live rock in your tank. Anemones don't come attached to rocks, you try and place them where you want them, and them watch them move to where they want to be.
10) Kalk is calcium hydroxide. It's an addative used to keep calcium and alkalinity levels up. Corals and clams use calcium, and will die if the levels drop too low.
Layton