Xenia is the one coral I have never had much luck with. I don't know why, it's really mysterious. Maybe your tank is too clean for the xenia's liking Pies. Xenia tends to like dissolved organics, nitrates, and ammonia.
Some people have suggested xenia crashing can be related to low alk (don't know if there is any real reasoning behind that), but at 8.1 I wouldn't say that it is low.
So beats me, I've never been able to keep xenia for more than a couple of months, it just slowly withers away.
Layton