For the drains, look up "herbie" and "bean animal" overflows, basically you have one drain running with a ball valve so it is a full siphon taking the bulk of the flow, and a second drain that handles the rest of the flow. This system is silent (or near silent), far better than a single durso. If you're going for a full width full height overflow you'll have plenty of space. TBH I'm not sure if 32mm is enough, always better to have more capacity than needed when it comes to overflow drains! This thread has the maximum flow rates for pvc piping at full siphon; http://www.monsterfishkeepers.com/forum ... Viewing%29
For the pump, I don't have experience with the Tunze, but I wasn't at all impressed with the Eheim Compact 5000. Have a look at Laguna, they're very quiet and very efficient on power (which can add up to a big difference in running costs long-term).
Lighting, have a look at www.current-usa.com I can't recommend the Satellite + FW units enough.
Looking forward to seeing the sump design.