I think it's the way you come across Layton, more so than what you say. You take a theory by someone (whether it be text book or net) and if it sounds kinda right to you, you argue that it MUST be true. You dont seem to listen to others because you are too caught up in these theories (and theories are often all they are, generally dictated by "well science has proved it right, so it must be right", you should know as well as anyone that in reef keeping, this is not always the case. what works for one person may not work for another). To some, it comes across as arrogant.
I agree you definately add value to this site. Just think about how you come across when you write some of your posts (and no, Im not saying you're the only one guilty of it)