yes is a she... and she didn't make it.... found out this morning...
I rang a friend that's a vet and she told me to gave it a salt water bath treatment and i did it yesterday for 2 minutes... and didn't keep her in the fridge after that ... as that's what the vet advise me to do...
The vet is more into real animals than 'fish'.
oh well, she warned me as there is not much hope when they bloated...